After my long afternoon at the museum, the plan was to find a pizzeria in town that a work colleague recommended. Little did I know the area I was going to was literally a two minute drive over a bridge to a quaint Main Street-type area, though it's actually called Market Street. I practically could have walked there--and might have if the weather was warmer and I could have changed into different shoes! I ended up getting a spot on the street just a few storefronts away from the pizza place. The area was so quaint that I decided to wander a bit before going in and ordering. The architecture was adorable--gorgeous, well-maintained old buildings housing shops and restaurants for blocks. Right around the corner from where I parked was this beautiful clock tower.
I could see there was more beyond it, and sure enough, there was a pedestrian bridge over the Chemung River. I walked out a bit on to the bridge, and the view was worth it. On the left is the Corning headquarters.
The view when I turned back around was also very pretty. Even better in green tree season, I imagine, although I guess you see more without the leaves.
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I should note here that we had absolutely no snow at home, so the smattering of snow you see struck me a little funny, and it was even charming when combined with Christmas lights in the trees on Market Street. Binghamton, on the other hand, still had feet of snow left from the four (!) they got the week before Christmas. It was so strange considering we had none at home, but still not out of place considering we should have a ton this time of year.
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I'm not sure what the purpose was of this pergola right near the bridge, but the vines wrapped around the supports were impressive, and I bet it's really beautiful with foliage.
When I walked back into the square with the clock tower, the view was so pretty with the tower, the hills, the Christmas lights, and the color in the sky.
Another block or so over was the entrance to Corning's headquarters. This arch was a really imposing structure.
You can see some of the mosaic detail here, particularly if you click on the photo to zoom in. The shimmer on the letters was so pretty!
There were tile mosaics on the inside of the arch on either side. This is one of them.
The headquarters itself was also very pretty, particularly with the Christmas lights.
There was a time capsule out front that was placed in 2001 and will be opened in 2051.

By this point I was pretty much ready to get some dinner, so I wandered back to the pizza place. Until I walked in and the hostess asked me if I was eating in or not, I literally had no idea whether I was going to eat in or take out. I wasn't thrilled with the take out option because my next destination was about an hour away, and I didn't want my food to get cold or soggy, even if the microwave at the hotel might have been able to resurrect it. But I'm still not really comfortable with eating in restaurants, either. However, I decided in the moment that I'd likely have to sit there and wait anyway, and it would just be easier to grab a spot and eat quickly. So I wandered upstairs to the bar and found a seat at the end, in chairs presumably purposely pushed to the end to keep social distancing. I was a weirdo and kept my mask on the whole time I waited, other than sips of water. There were a decent number of people there, and despite a bit of distancing from other bar patrons and tables of guests, I figured there were enough people there that it couldn't hurt. Indoor dining there didn't really seem to be affected, so I assumed they weren't in one of the state's cluster zones--and they're not, although there is one about 20 minutes away. I felt a little funny diligently masking because my guess is people outside the zones are a little less neurotic than those of us that come from an active zone, so I probably looked a little crazy. Oh well. My pizza was delicious, though, and after a couple slices I packed up my leftovers and left. My plan was to drive to the hotel, settle in a little, grab a snack from the A&W Restaurant down the street, and then enjoy a quiet evening alone on my king-sized bed! And that's just what I did!

I watched a movie I love that I bought a year ago and hadn't had a chance to sit down and watch. I did my nails and didn't have to do anything that would mess them up, as inevitably happens when I'm home. I drank my root beer float (yay for a random A&W down the street!), browsed on my phone, placed an Amazon order, and just relaxed under the covers while waiting for the heat to ramp up. It was so relaxing and completely out of the ordinary to have such a quiet night.
The next morning I woke up plenty early and ended up having a full hour to get breakfast. Much to my dismay, we can add Holiday Inn Express cinnamon rolls to the list of things the pandemic has ruined. My favorite breakfast was not available, and while the hotel supposedly had a couple options upon request, I figured getting a McDonald's Egg McMuffin was rare enough that I should just go get one across the street. And indeed, it was very good and made me miss the cinnamon rolls a little less. After that I packed up, checked out, and drove 10 minutes through the cute main drag of the little town to the church for the baptism.
I've been to this church before--turns out it was about 10 years ago, which blows my mind a little! Time really flies! It was great to see Heather, her husband, her mom, and of course baby Mason. I also got to see Heather's brother, his wife, and their daughter, none of whom I'd seen in a number of years. All three of her brother's crew were also godparents, and considering there was another baptism the same day, we made for quite a crowd at the front of the church! The baptism itself was really a special moment. I couldn't help but think back on all the years Heather and I have known one another, the many memories we share, and realize that it probably never occurred to little girl or preteen me that three decades later we'd have stood up in each other's weddings and I'd now be a godparent to her child. For the record, we stuck to two godparents for each of our kids and opted to keep it in the family, but I'm pretty sure she would have been next in line had we had a third. But it was such an incredible honor to not only be a godparent, but to be there for this wonderful moment for a miraculous baby. And he did such a good job!
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| I promise, the masks only came off for momentary pictures! |
All of the excitement must have tired him right out because when we got back to the house to have some lunch, he was OUT!
The man of the hour slept through our entire lunch, in fact, and even though you never wake a sleeping baby, eventually Heather took a risk and grabbed him so I could hold him for a bit before I left! He was so much bigger than he was about six weeks earlier when my mom and I visited! I even got to feed him, which was something I haven't done in a while! Eventually he got a little bored with me so I handed him back to mama, which instantly made him much happier!
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| What a little doll, no? |
He's such a sweet little guy, and I cannot wait to see him grow up! It made me so happy to be there for him that day and to get some time with Heather, too. I'll admit that parenthood has made visiting a bit harder over the years, but now that my kids are a bit bigger and her little one will only be little for so long, I hope the timing will be good to change that trend a bit.
Before I finish off the rest of the trip, I wanted to share the gifts I gave, because one has a really cool story. So, a year ago, my office had a holiday bazaar. They have one every year (until this year) and it's always fun to go browse. I don't tend to buy a lot (other than this yummy stuff called White Trash from someone's mom!), but last year I was obsessed with this one booth that had amazing crocheted stuff. I was originally looking at the cute baby hats for a little first Christmas gift for my cousin's daughter, but my attention turned to a couple of the stuffed animals. They were SO cute! And super reasonable, as well. But I was like, who would I buy this for? My cousins' daughters already had an overload of toys, and I didn't really have any other babies to buy for. All afternoon I sat at my desk thinking about the cute animals, and at the end of the day I wandered back up. I just couldn't help it--the face on this lamb was just priceless!

He was so soft and sweet, and I just had to have him. So I bought him, and he sat in my drawer for a year. Periodically I'd take him out, think about him, and wonder. And even when another cousin had a baby, it still didn't feel like the right fit. Oddly, once Mason came along, I didn't even think about the lamb. Maybe because it was so sudden, maybe because life has been a little wacky for the past few months, maybe because I didn't go in that drawer until I had to stash Christmas gifts. But when I was asked to be a godmother, I realized it was the perfect gift for this extra special baby. And at that moment it occurred to me--that nagging feeling I couldn't shake that made me go back up and buy this lamb was God's way of telling me that something special was coming. A whole year ahead of time (and long before that), He knew that Heather's long wait would be coming to an end, and I would need a special gift like this. I feel like it's such a cool sign of God being in control, answering prayers against all odds, and knowing what we need even before we know we need it. Pretty cool, isn't it? I topped off the gift with a personalized laser-engraved picture frame (edited here for privacy). The picture of us from the day I met him (again, only briefly unmasked--someday that kid will see I have a whole face!) was just a placeholder! Oh, and I got a sweet personalized frame of my own to bring home as my godmother gift!

Before we knew it, the sun was starting to get low in the sky and it was definitely time for me to go since I had a long trip back. Fortunately, because it was another rare sunny day, it meant the sky stayed much brighter for much longer than usual. The sunset was actually quite pretty and made for a rather enjoyable first half of the drive.

Even though the Thruway is a slightly shorter drive, I decided to take back the same route I took in, mostly because there are more landmarks and fewer long stretches between exits. The last hour and a half of the Thruway route is tough, especially at night. For a full hour you can go at least 15 minutes between exits, with little else to mark the passing of time and space. It can be hard to stay awake. Then the last half hour is a pretty routine drive, but by then I'm just impatient to be home! At least the other route past Geneseo has good memories for me, and I know pretty much exactly where I am between exits at any given moment for the last stretch. All of that helps when you're tired and ready to be done! The drive was pretty uneventful, and it was good to get home. Even better was that I had the foresight to take Monday off, which meant I could be a little more relaxed with the unpacking, get random household tasks done, and finally de-Christmas! In fact, I got all of the de-Christmasing done that day and just had a few tasks like vacuuming and moving furniture to finish up over the course of the week. So we're pretty much back to normal now, other than more toy rearranging, which is probably never-ending anyway.
I can't even really express what a great weekend it was and how desperately it was needed. The time to think complete thoughts, listen to my own music uninterrupted, wander around one of my favorite places for hours, see so many gorgeous things, survive a harrowing Bills' playoff win, have a night on my own in a hotel room, and be present for a very special moment for a very special baby (and a very special friend) was all just so amazing and heart-warming, and so life-giving after so many challenging months where special moments were in very short supply. I love my family, but sometimes you can get too much of a good thing! And admittedly, my kids aren't always the easiest, so being unable to get any extended breaks from the constant noise and frequent battles over the last 10 months has been mentally challenging. Part of being human is being able to grow and explore, and that has felt very stifled lately, which has likely contributed to extra grumpiness and a shorter temper. I won't say this trip fixed everything, but it was so wonderful and at least gave me something to smile about for the past week when other positive things were in short supply. I'm so grateful I was able to go.
Now I guess it's onward to Carter's birthday in exactly one month! How is my baby going to be EIGHT?!